Is Innocence a benediction?

It is indeed a melancholy experience for me to find myself writing about some very natural and innate things. The function of any software engineer is to perform some computer program, to add to computer science and not to talk / write about what he or other persons done. Statesmen despise publicists, painters despise art-critics, and Mathematicians, physiologists or physicists have usually similar feelings. There is no scorn more profound or, on the whole more justifiable, then that of men who make for the men who explain.

Exposition, criticism, appreciation, is work for second rate minds.

I can remember arguing this point once in one of the  few serious conversations that I ever had with Neha J.  Just the other day I was discussing about present contemporary topics. Our discussion varied from most preposterous issues to so called "senesce" things, from current political issues to love affairs and bomb blasts victims to peace missionaries. And in entire discussion I realized that we, so called “senesce” people forgot to enjoy the little things that nature endowed us.  In the mean time I saw few kids playing beside us in that lovely park. I still remember that moment….They all looked so damn happy to me. I said to her, why couldn’t I look like that? That’s an incredible thing about a child.. Sometimes I feel what’s so great about bubbles, they float, they pop. I wish I liked anything as much as kids love bubbles, their smiling faces just point out your inability to enjoy anything. Then this brilliant young woman with her dashing style, said that if you do what you love, you will really savor every micro second of your time.

I still remember that day, when we were in school and this girl was once asked to support her argument in favor of social welfare. She made the most powerful source imaginable, The look in the mothers face when she cannot feed her children. Can you look at the hungry child in the eye. See the blood on his feel on walking barefooted in long fields. Or if you ask the baby sitter with her belly swollen from hunger, if she cares for her dads work ethics? I was, indeed entire class was deeply moved.

Probably I was confused rather then convinced J

Then without out second thought she said getting married is also a way to become happy and said that it brings felicity and also Marriages is like a reality show which gives 22 min of pure happiness. Well, I don’t know but may be that’s not so funny.

I always feel marriage is like unfunny version of a reality show But it doesn’t last 22 min. it lasts forever. And it’s like treating a sick but not the ailment and the epidemic spread.

Well, I finally felt that we should not forget our basics-don’t forget to enjoy little things after all we grew with those thoughts